If you are writing your own wedding vows and looking for inspiration, this collection of vow examples will help you find the right tone and language for your ceremony. These examples are not templates you need to copy word for word. Instead, they are starting points to spark ideas and help you shape vows that feel true to your relationship and your voice.
Each set has a slightly different style so you can explore what resonates with you.
Warm and heartfelt
“[Partner’s name], from the moment I met you I felt a calm I had never known. You bring light into my days and comfort into my nights. I love the way you listen, the way you laugh, and the way your kindness shapes the world around you. Today, I promise to support your dreams, to stand by you through the challenges, and to celebrate with you in every joy. I choose you as my partner, my confidant, and my greatest love, today and always.”
Playful and genuine
“Babe, you are my favourite person to come home to and the only one I would share chips with. I promise to laugh at your jokes, even the questionable ones, and to hold your hand when life gets messy. I vow to show up for you, to cheer for you, and to be honest and loving as we grow together. I love you for who you are and who we are when we are side by side. Let’s keep building this beautiful, silly, full life together.”
Simple and sincere
“[Partner’s name], you are my best friend and the person I trust with my whole heart. I promise to listen with patience, speak with kindness, and love you fully. I will stand with you in strength, comfort you in sadness, and share joy in all our days. I am grateful for the love we have and I choose you today with all that I am.”
Poetic and reflective
“You are my quiet place, my safe harbour, and the soul I want to walk beside. You have taught me gentleness, shown me courage, and made me laugh in moments I needed it most. Today I promise to nurture the love we share, to protect our connection, and to keep choosing you in each season of our life. With you, I feel grounded. With you, I feel home.”
Modern and relaxed
“I love how we fit. I love that we talk through everything, even the small things. I promise to support your dreams, to challenge you when you need it, and to grow with you as life changes. I will bring honesty, humour, and care to our marriage. You are my partner and my favourite person, and I choose you every day.”
Light, loving and a little funny
“You are the person I want to have breakfast with for the rest of my life, even though your coffee sucks! I promise to be patient, to be kind, and to let you steal the doona sometimes. I vow to love you without conditions, to show up when it counts, and to make our home one of warmth and laughter. I love you endlessly and I’m so glad it is you.”
Short and meaningful
“I choose you. I promise to love you, to respect you, and to walk beside you with openness and trust. You are my heart, my home, and my partner in all things.”
I hope you find these short examples helpful. And remember, aim for around one to two minutes when spoken aloud (that’s 100-300 words). This keeps the moment meaningful without feeling rushed or too long. Save fun facts and long stories for the reception, once everyone’s a bit more relaxed and holding a glass of bubbles in their hand! As your celebrant, I’m happy to guide you if you are unsure about length, balance, tone, etc.
Much love,
Andrés ❤️
Your Adelaide Celebrant
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